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By the end of this video you’re going to find out why you’re not successful online, how to be more successful online, and should you be dating online at all.
0:21 An average girl on a free dating website gets messaged an average of 100 messages every single day. Imagine if received 100 every single day even if you had the desire to read every single message the amount of time and effort it would take to read all of them let alone respond to them you would probably have to quit your job and do this full time. That’s the experience of an average girl online they are getting bombarded by messages every day.
1:57 I’d really like to make a case for approaching women in real life. The trend seems to be moving to online dating lately because people find it convenient. The pluses of meeting women online are it’s an easy way to handle rejection, easier to speak your mind, no feelings of embarrassments, and no shame.
The minuses are the really low, low response rate like you’ve been getting.
Dating in real life you have the opposite scenario. Here in New York City there are tons of good looking women the streets are lined with them. A really gorgeous good looking girl in New York City maybe gets hit on and approached 5 times a week. And, the guys that are hitting on them are usually not the type of quality men women are interested in. You have no competition dating in real life and it’s easier for women to feel comfortable with you because they get a sense of your personality better as opposed to online dating they only make their decision whether to talk to you or not based on your picture, profile, and message.
4:03 Here are 3 steps to increase your online dating response rate. The first thing is a no brainer you have to have clear pictures of your face. 5 to 7 pictures works best. Use recent pictures, don’t pull a bait and switch by posting a picture of you from 3 years ago with more hair or 30 thinner. Women will appreciate your honesty. Pictures where you smile are a must.
4:33 The second step to pay attention to is your profile. This is really where a lot of guys begin to fail and lose potential dates. Most guys make their profile read like a resume….they list their hobbies, work, preference in music, etc. Your profile is a way to advertise yourself you only have precious seconds to make an impression before the girl moves onto someone else. A boring profile is a sure way to lose her attention. The trick is to make your profile playful and interesting. The key is being able to talk about anything in a playful and humorous way.
5:32 The last but probably the most important step is your opening message. Most guys send messages that are very blank and boring such as “Hi, you’re cute”, “let’s grab a drink sometime”, etc. After seeing hundreds of practically identical messages women begin to go on looks and unless you look like Ryan Gosling you don’t stand a chance. You have to be original. Sending humorous and playful messages that are not response seeking work best. A message I used and got great results was “So, I hear you like bad boys…I swim with no floating…true story lol”.
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